Nobody helps
Nobody answers my issues on here and I don’t even know. My ex dumped me about 7 weeks ago. She was my first. We were never officially dating but we were exclusive. We were together two months. In her break up she had great things to say about me. She was kicked out of college and needed to focus if she wanted to be successful in her career. She had been working a lot and partying and disregarding school. I offered to be the for her but she said she didnt want to bring me down with her. Two weeks later I messaged her on Christmas Merry Christmas. She responded to that but didn’t respond to my next text about how her dinner was. The next day I texted her saying I wanted to just make sure she’s okay after our last time we texted because she mentioned not being okay. It’s been almost 5 weeks since then and she never texted. However we still hold a streak on Snap. I don’t view any of her stories on social media. She removed me from her private and I removed her from mine. I’m not sure if I should move on or keep hope with her because I had such a great time with her.
@Imissit5567 Hey there, hopefully you are doing well. Going through a breakup is hurtful, especially when she's an important part of your life. Several things caught my attention when I read your post. What led her to behaviors such as:
- Getting kicked out of college.
- Constantly partying.
- Wondering if she wanted to be successful in her career.
I wonder about those things because they can significantly influence how much priority she places in a relationship, and depending on several factors, they can lead to a breakup. Knowing she isn't responding to your messages is tough, especially when you wish to help her. You are doing the right thing in keeping your distance. Hopefully, it allows you to heal.
I’ve always been known to be a gentleman hopefully she can figure it out regardless of whether I get back with her or not.
