Not fair.
Loveneverfailsx3
February 3rd
I guess I'm just going to use this as kind of like a journal for my future therapist.
My partner says I deserve to be lied to because he THINKS I lie to him all the time. In all honesty, I've never lied to him. About anything, big or small. He tells me I'm not worth the truth. It doesn't seem fair since I'm so open and honest with him. He's lied to me over and over again for years... :(
toughTiger6481
February 3rd
@Loveneverfailsx3
it is not about fair or "you lie too" etc. blame game ...
It is him refusing to take responsibility for his lies or continual mistreatment of you. This approach somehow has worked for him by putting you on the defense about lies, quit playing his game.
Chose you.
