Not sure I’m processing ?
Hi everyone, I just Got out of a three-year relationship we were engaged. We broke up roughly 2 weeks ago and have not talked in a little over a week now I have still yet to cry. I don’t know if I am thoroughly detached from this situation or what but I think about her often, but I don’t let it consume me. I’ve been distracted with work and hanging with my friends, but I think it’s time for me to start trying to process everything so I can move on if anyone has any advice I would really appreciate it. Thank you.
@passionateFriend1712 So sorry that the relationship didn't work out between you and her. I know you mentioned in your post that you have yet to cry yet. It's ok that you haven't done so. The time will come where your body knows exactly what you need to release. You strike ne as someone who is so self-aware and that's great! It seems you're doing what you need to get your mind off of the breakup and not dwelling on it. You take all the time you need to process what just happened. Walking away from 3 years is a form of loss and it's ok to grieve this. Your tears will come. Allow yourself the time to process this, grieve and heal. I hope you will be ok within time and that you allow yourself to feel all the way it needs to. Please take care of yourself. ♡☆
