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User Profile: BeingExceptional
BeingExceptional December 29th, 2025

So I just wanted to share one thing about relationship and I think I am good being single but at times it feels like *** such as festive times ... So I always preferred QUALITY over QUANTITY and believe that LONELINESS IS BETTER THAN TOXIC FRIENDSHIP OR RELATIONSHIP IN LIFE but I sometimes I wish I could allow toxic people to ruin my mental health than being lonely in such a bad way.

So I am someone who got several proposals but it didn't feel the one so I moved ahead but on the other hand COMPATIBILITY and VIBE IS A HUGE FACTOR in any kind of relationship so I honestly still looking for the same. Sometimes it feels like I WILL DIE SINGLE and UNLOVED.

Just shared my thoughts to vent out ...

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 29th, 2025

@BeingExceptional

Inviting toxic people, trust me only makes you feel lonelier.

It's about trust, intimacy and the right person.

That's worth waiting for and fighting for 💚

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User Profile: BeingExceptional
BeingExceptional OP December 30th, 2025

Yes I know dear but I am hopeless in a way as every year comes to an end

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 December 31st, 2025

@BeingExceptional

Sometimes I too feel it is better to be alone. I think it is a matter of what you determine is toxic.  Toxic to me is a word that means something different to many people. one person's toxic may only be a minor annoyance to another.  

  I feel most friendships and relationships have flaws and things that sometimes irritate us. Some I can deal with and some I don't. 

In romantic relationships IMO if someone waits for perfection, they will be alone. People change and grow and what felt like the one .......at some point may no longer feel that way later on.    I have seen good people pass on a real relationship thinking this is nice but what if there is something better.  

I find most long-lasting relationships I have seen in my life were not on the surface a great match or fit but the magic of ordinary days was built inside of a relationship.  


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User Profile: BeingExceptional
BeingExceptional OP December 31st, 2025

Thanks for your thoughts and experience but I never looked for someone PERFECT as it is not possible. However sometimes, what is TOXIC that affects your inner world as per my experience.

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