Online dating
Im 16 yrs last year I met a guy. He said 24 and single I don’t know how I liked him but it happened. We chatted for 4 months till he said he is 44 and married and have 3 kids. we stopped talking for like 3 months then I tried to search for him and I did found him. I didn’t want to be with him but I couldn’t leave him I know it was wrong. We started dating again but these time it was serious he deleted the girls he was talking to and when I saw his picture I told him he looked older and he told me he is 66 yrs. I couldn’t leave him I loved him a lot. We talked about marriage and having kids and that we will get married when Im 18. When I first talked to him he said he have a sister and they wanted to have sex together (like when he feels he wants her he talks to me) so I helped him. 4 months ago his wife figured out about us and he didn’t want to talk to me he told her lies about me and he doesn’t have sister it was all a lie. He was playing with my feelings I really loved him I know its hard to believe because he is way older than me but I did love him I didn’t care about anything but him. I still have feelings for him though. Now his wife is talking to me to figure out all his lies because I wasn’t the only girl. I lied to her about where we met and I said I didn’t know he is married also he didn’t mention that we met last year he just mentioned the second time we met.
@sincereSquare2071
hey ik we dont know each other and im literally nobody to tell you anything but i swearr i feel so concerned about you rn 🥺
this person seems like a total red flag ... :( telling you so many lies, talking about incest so casually with a minor and soughting "help" with those feelings, cheating on his wife and family, more girls being involved so whatever it is he is promising you about ... cheating on you too etc the list of things this person is doing horribly wrong is a big one ... um do they know you're 16? because what they seem to be doing is grooming...which is ... sooo wrong 😔
yes its possible you feel a bond with them or that you even love them ...getting attached over talking and stuff online can feel like being in love too .... but ask yourself if this is the kind of love anyone deserves? built on false pretense, lies and manipulations?
do you have a trusted adult you can talk to about all this?
please please be careful and safe ... this person doesn't sound good at all...they can be really scary and dangerous :(
im kinda sorry i had to say all this... but also not... because sometimes harsher truths save lives... it's fine if you don't see it or believe it at the moment... all i hope for is your safety and well being .. <3
Yeah they know im 16. I don’t deserve this but yes I really love him. Im trying to stay away but his wife asked me to help her divorce him. Im trying to be ok though. Thank you
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