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Online dating.. stings.

User Profile: faithfulBunny4716
faithfulBunny4716 December 28th, 2025

I am so tired. What is so scary that people can't get off their screens and have a simple coffee ? There's really no expectations in trying to get to know someone better in person...

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User Profile: Remina
Remina December 28th, 2025

@faithfulBunny4716

Online dating can definitely be frustrating. I am sorry that you can't find someone to take some time out of their day to go have coffee with you. 

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faithfulBunny4716 OP December 28th, 2025

Thank you for your support :)

I'm planning on doing things organically. Really venting my frustrations... let go of things online.

User Profile: Remina
Remina December 28th, 2025

@faithfulBunny4716

You are welcome.

It is good to vent. Better than keeping it inside.

Meeting people organically is much better. What will you be trying?

User Profile: faithfulBunny4716
faithfulBunny4716 OP December 28th, 2025

Photography walks, crafting centre, travelling more, going for museums. Things like that i guess :)

User Profile: Remina
Remina December 28th, 2025

@faithfulBunny4716

Those sound like nice places to meet genuine people with similiar interests! Do let me know how that goes.

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faithfulBunny4716 OP December 28th, 2025

Sure, in some months I'll update :) will give time and not rush things.

User Profile: Remina
Remina December 28th, 2025

@faithfulBunny4716

Definitely, it takes time! No need to rush the process.

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User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 December 28th, 2025

@faithfulBunny4716

I'm sorry about your experience. Online dating can be tricky. You never know what the person behind the screen is like. 

What are your thoughts on finding a date organically?

User Profile: faithfulBunny4716
faithfulBunny4716 OP December 28th, 2025

I think that it's going to be better, because I'm thinking about joining and doing activities that I'm interested in. At least I'll meet more people too.

Thank you for your support :)

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trueconfidant123 December 28th, 2025

@faithfulBunny4716

That sounds perfect. I'm happy to hear that you're exploring activities that will help with social interaction. I'm wishing you good luck. 

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User Profile: faithfulBunny4716
faithfulBunny4716 OP December 28th, 2025

Thank you so much ð¥°

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User Profile: BeingExceptional
BeingExceptional December 29th, 2025

I left trying dating

User Profile: faithfulBunny4716
faithfulBunny4716 OP December 30th, 2025

I completely understand 🫂

Better keep living life offline and someone will come when time is right :)

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User Profile: BubblegumBarbie
BubblegumBarbie January 22nd

i 100% agree with you, i can’t speak for anyone but myself on this but honestly i do get very scared to meet new people purely from the fact you never know what the persons going to be like till you actually meet them and get to know them and that can be quite scary but also frustrating because you do want to get out and meet someone and not over social media

User Profile: faithfulBunny4716
faithfulBunny4716 OP January 24th

Yes, i understand. As I was talking to a friend today, I realised how dangerous the world became nowadays, so a lot of people feel taken aback, BUT in my case I feel that if they don't want to meet then don't waste my time with ambiguity and be honest. They look for company, say they want relationships but don't like the responsibility that comes with it.

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