Online relationship
Im 16 yrs last year I met a guy. He said 24 and single I don’t know how I liked him but it happened. We chatted for 4 months till he said he is 44 and married and have 3 kids. we stopped talking for like 3 months then I tried to search for him and I did found him. I didn’t want to be with him but I couldn’t leave him I know it was wrong. We started dating again but these time it was serious he deleted the girls he was talking to and when I saw his picture I told him he looked older and he told me he is 66 yrs. I couldn’t leave him I loved him a lot. We talked about marriage and having kids and that we will get married when Im 18. When I first talked to him he said he have a sister and they wanted to have sex together (like when he feels he wants her he talks to me) so I helped him. 4 months ago his wife figured out about us and he didn’t want to talk to me he told her lies about me and he doesn’t have sister it was all a lie. He was playing with my feelings I really loved him I know its hard to believe because he is way older than me but I did love him I didn’t care about anything but him. I still have feelings for him though. Now his wife is talking to me to figure out all his lies because I wasn’t the only girl. I lied to her about where we met and I said I didn’t know he is married also he didn’t mention that we met last year he just mentioned the second time we met. About my family they are always supporting my brother. They never see me its like im not at home. Me and my father doesn’t talk maybe once every week. They never did what I want everything is always their choice. My relationship with my friends is not good too. We only meet during school and exams but we talk on whatsapp sometimes they don’t seem me like my parents. Feels like no one sees me and my ex was the only one who sees me but it was all fake.
@sincereSquare2071
This is common this person who habitually lies but knows you feel invisible and are very good at saying the right things and make you feel seen appreciated and such. You are not alone many other girls have fallen victim to this type of predator. that is what he is you know.... you may have had feelings but i do not think he ever did they get a high off stringing someone like you along....
It should be a good lesson and realize online you cannot trust everyone... you are worthy and not invisible ... you can not worry about this as it happens everyday ..... find people to talk to iRL and maybe closer to your age as well... if you want to be seen and paid attention to speak up for yourself.
do you realize how lucky you are many young girls met up with their lying stranger and were never seen again.
It hurts a lot though. Since im arab I can’t date because im still young.
@sincereSquare2071
I know when a person says things you want to hear etc... and seems to really understand it can be easy to feel connected .....................but it is NOT same as real dating and frankly there is not rush to date or have a BF ...
Sometimes it is better for people to know themselves completely first before dating as it is easier to not fall for anyone or try to be something you are not ....for some one else.... It is not worth trying to mold yourself into something you are not for the attention from someone and in the end many regret pretending to be a version to appease someone..