Painful relationship
Hi,
I’m a 45-year-old woman, married for 25 years, with two children (7 and 12).
Recently I’ve been going through a very painful situation in my marriage.
My partner often uses very hurtful and disrespectful words toward me, sometimes even in front of our children. It has deeply affected my self-esteem and emotional well-being. I feel broken, exhausted, and very alone.
I’m not looking for judgment or quick advice.
I just need someone kind to listen, help me process my feelings, and support me in rebuilding my confidence and emotional strength.
I want to become stronger, less emotionally dependent, and protect myself from being hurt again.
Thank you for being here and listening.
@Nikki80
I'm so sorry you are going through this.
No judgement at all, but there's no justification for the way he's treating you and speaking to you like that.
I hope you know, nothing he says is a reflection of you 💙
Thanks dear, I am trying to find myself again and be kind to myself
Thanks dear, I am trying to find myself again and be kind to myself
@Nikki80
A pleasure 💜
So sorry for what you are going through.
No respect = no relationship, but sometimes we choose to stay for many reasons.
Find your reasons, classify it and trust your gut
Are these reasons really worth it?
How long you can coup ?
What is your exit strategy ?
Calm , breaaathe and close your eyes for a few minutes.
Silence!! Shsh shsh
Just noise inside your head.
Breathe again!
Focus on one idea and ignore anything else .
Open your eye >> What is the first thing you really want to do after you open your eyes ?
