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Please help me have i done the right break up with him

User Profile: rishikaok
rishikaok June 18th, 2025

I had a long distance relationship of 2 years like we meet once in 3 4 months and we had like a really strong bond which i thought it is from somewhere i got to know that while he was trying to make me his gf chase me he was also chasing other women at the same time i fell for his sweet words and i was the fool one and spend my 2 years with him he says and i used to feel too that he is not like that he is changed even after then i found out he was in rs with soo many girls before me its embarrassing for me and now he be liking pictures and following models semi nude pics and even after i confronted him he didn't stopped and HE SAID HE LOVED ME SOO MUCH AND HE ACTUALLY USED TO CARE FOR ME idk what should i believe him or other people i really loved him experienced everything with him for the first time and he already has experienced everything with other women

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User Profile: River
River June 19th, 2025

@rishikaok

Hello, 

First of all, thank you for sharing with us, thats very brave of you. 

Its valid to be confused. I can see that you really loved him and why you feel so hurt. While sometimes, when its about the people we love, we often turn blind eye on things they do. Seems like you have a lot of evidences around you and know the right away. A lot of it comes down to the battle of heart and brain, no?

Even if you want to get back together, I hope you have an honest conversation and hold him accountable for all his actions. Trust once broken is hard to fix again, unless the other person is willing to put in extraordinary efforts. What are your thoughts on him being able to do that? 

I hope you stay strong. I wish I could tell you how strong you are for making the decision that you did, despite the love. It's often the hard part. 💙

Whatever you choose to do, please do keep us updated. Sending my extra strength your way. 💜