Please help me with my dilemma (Should I be immediate friends with my Ex of 10 years)
I'll try keep this short, we were together 10 years, she did the breaking up, we still live together (I'm looking at places to rent ATM), she's already speaking to someone/hanging out with them frequently (hurts like *** if I'm honest), I have no other local friends or support (I have my mum but she's 100+ miles away), I don't want her out of my life and to become just a memory. I don't know what to do, literally everywhere I see people saying no contact (minimum of 6 months) but if I do that when I move, I'll have no support and I can't really expect her family to help when I'm no longer in contact with their daughter :(
@rationalBeechwood8031
This is so difficult and ten years is a long time but it mattered so much to you, sadly she has already moved on.
It's not fair for you to look at her with someone else everyday.
It's not healthy.
And sadly, some people do just become a memory.
Only you can decide what to do, but I personally would be going to stay with my mum, getting space and healing and allowing myself to meet someone else and be happy and build my own new beginnings instead of watching someone else's!
I genuinely wish you the best!
💕💜