Pregnant with Fiance that is Keeping Secrets
My relationship has had some bumps and barriers over the last 2 years, but I thought we had come across it all quite strong.
This weekend I had caught my fiance lying to me...twice.
He had been speaking to a female acquaintance and he sent her money after she asked him for some financial help.
He lied to me about speaking to someone secretly and then lied about the amount of money.
I'm concerned about how easy it was for him to lie to me, about how his initial response to being caught out was to justify his actions and then make it my fault that he felt like he needed to hide things.
I don't understand the full nature of the relationship between my fiance and this female, I'm more lost on how he kept things from me and lied to my face.
Any help and advice would be appreciated.
@faithfulfool88
I would agree being in a situation where you will be married and have a child if all was fine he should be able to tell you he spoke to a friend. even a female one and lent her money.... when he get defensive and wants to turn on you.
was past trouble over him having female friends? The lying to your face should be addressed and frankly sooner then later. i think sometimes we wait we are cautious to not rock the boat more but when dealing with things saying explain NOW is better IMO then remember x amount of time ago you said this or that and did this or that. Often leads to NOT remembering or changing story and snowballs.
