Redeeming myself positively
Hey everybody. I was just looking for advice and help on how to really improve to show my girlfriend effort into being better for her and to really be disciplined in this relationship so we can have much smoother roads in our future. I'm active on Twitter and that's really where a lot of my issues arose from. I have girl mutuals and one of them I may have gotten a little too close to and i just wanna cut stuff like that out so i can slowly but surely earn her trust back. It's really not an app issue, more so a me and disciplinary/self control issue. This girl is literally my soulmate and I told her I want to be simple man and cut nonsense out of our relationship. Keep in mind that I have had similar situations to this. I need help and i'd like to talk deep about actions I'm doing to grow and evolve with her so we can have a stronger, solid relationship going into our future.
@QC12 I think it's sweet that you're looking for ways to improve and be better for the one you love. It's great that you're aware of your discipline issues when it comes to Twitter. Perhaps, try detoxing from social media if you know issues stemmed from it. If having female friends on there is causing concern, a little reassurance to your girlfriend wouldn't hurt. Let her know and make her feel that's she's a priority to you and that she's more important than Twitter or whatever. Assure her she can trust you and ease her mind. Continue to make positive changes each day. Not just for her but, most importantly, for you!! I'm proud of you for recognizing that something needs to be done. Change needs to come. I hope that you continue to grow and improve and that your relationship thrives in all areas. Wish you the best. Take care!
Thank you!! Do you think if i keep things simple by just staying within my lane will help? Also is there daily things i could do for myself to really help improve the trust and honesty bridge with her?
@QC12 Honestly, I can't say. But these are great questions you have! I believe this is where deep reflection within yourself and a good heart to heart conversation with her may be your best bet to finding a solution or common ground.