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User Profile: Sindaferp
Sindaferp August 5th, 2023

Hey so I've been in a relationship for 6 months we moved in really quickly which was probably a bad idea she's kinda been pressering me to marry her because it's what she's always wanted but it's really soon and I feel less like myself every day her family is unbearable I love her probably more than I've loved anyone else in my life but her brother always wants to fight (I'm in the military and consistently go to the gym for boxing muay Thai and bjj) but he seems to think he can take me which she agrees and that sucks that she never has my back but I can't actually fight him because she crys over the fact that I say I don't respect him anyways I can't stand her family her friends talk about how they scream at meth heads when they try to rob her and when she broke got stabbed I was the *** for saying she escalated the situation which she did they all seem kinda brain dead in my opinion and sometimes feel like I'm being used. Does anyone have any advice? I kinda want to break it off but feel awkward about it?

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User Profile: CalmRosebud
CalmRosebud August 5th, 2023

@Sindaferp I'm sorry to hear that you're in a difficult situation, but it's not uncommon to face challenges like these in a relationship. It sounds like you've put a lot of thought into what you want and what you value, and that's important. It's okay to prioritize your own needs and boundaries, even if it means making difficult decisions. Trust your instincts and do what feels right for you, even if it's uncomfortable at first. You deserve to be in a relationship where you feel supported, respected, and like yourself.