Relationship confusion
My boyfriend is just behaving like a narcissist...he said he loves me...bt do nothing to keep me in his life just drinking, abusing me the whole day long......I am very confused if he loves me.....why can't he quit his habit.. .and if he doesn't love me....why is he saying all. those things??
Why?
@unassumingNest4287
Words are what people who may have a touch of narcissist have. They tell others what they want to hear but no action to match their words. When there is real love, it is not because they said so it is a deeper thing that shows you with and without the words.
Saying they love you is easy showing it and making you feel it takes effort and consistency. As long as you stay and believe his hollow words it will continue. He is not going to magically change.
if you want the relationship, he will need to meet your needs and match actions with words... it only happens when we stand up for ourselves in that. do not settle because you are worth it.
Thankyou for your kind words