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Relationship issue

User Profile: Ciendyechee
Ciendyechee October 12th, 2023

I connected with someone from twitter in July and we got talking then we become close . The friendship was going well though we don’t stay in the same country but we’re from the same tribe . We started the friendship with marriage in mind but then things started changing in our 3rd month of talking . I felt it was work related stress and I understood him but one day , he just texted me that he needed a break , I felt it was just a break but he said if I see anyone I want to marry I should that he doesn’t think he’s coming back to our country anytime soon. This was someone I was have video calls with and he felt the right way to end things with me was through text . I couldn’t take it like that so I confronted him and he was he knows he behaved like a "coward” in his words but he doesn’t want to call so we won’t dwell on it . I feel hurt that he ended things that way but we still follow each other on social media platforms and also with each other’s number. I don’t know what to do .

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 October 12th, 2023

@Ciendyechee

Online connections especially IMO romantic ones have difficulty after a while if he feels for whatever reason / money/ opportunity / time line./ perhaps with other country visa issues ...... he can not find a way to be in same place with you....

People sometimes feel it will not work and maybe you or both should accept that and find someone physically present to have a relationship with. 

 People talk of when we are together .......and such and the feelings are REAL........ but the uncertainty or if it is possible for either party to travel to be in person begins to honestly depress some that it may never happen or how long can we wait or put a life on hold for someday....  maybe if that is the reason you both need to decide if possible how?....... what time line are you looking at  ......or other options.