Relationship problems - feel like no one wants me anymore
I found it really rude how i cooked for us tonight. He was on his phone watching something and didn't make much conversation with me. I just made up an excuse and said i was tired.
i am having strange thoughts at the moment i don't what it is. I think i am falling for someone else who is in a relationship and i am scared really that i am gonna come between others and hurt people feelings. I am anxious to be honest with you and having that knot in my stomach too.
Why do i feel like i just a waste of space for people and relationships. My head is up the wall and never know what to do with myself. Ughh i don't have any energy for drama or arguing at all. Why do i waste my time on people who say they wanna meet me but cancel on the day ☹️😬.
Think i get made of a fool you know.
Why me? Why does this have to happen? No one wants me anymore?
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@catchmeifyoucangirl
You are worthy of love.
It's the height of rudeness , you cooking and him ignoring you.
He's not appreciating you, hence why you are putting misplaced feelings onto someone else.
You deserve so much better than this 💜
Thank you so much and i really need that love , support and someone who is gonna love me for who i am
@catchmeifyoucangirl
I hear you..... if I had a dollar for every time I was ignored for A phone, tv or whatever and the worn excuse " I am just tired". The thing is when they find interest or are NOT "tired" we do not want them anymore either.
I think it is easy to think about "what if" about someone else. It often is a fantasy as dismantling their world and our world to be together seems impossible when we try to visualize it. it is fun talking or chatting, but it loses interest when we know it will not go farther.
No one else sees US ... that Guess what ...we are tired of just going through the motions. People are feeling the same they assume everyone else is busy or such. All plans seem to NOT work out people are busy or whatever. do not take it personally find things you can enjoy on your own i find people have all sorts of interest when we are not waiting for them to be interested.
