Relationship problems, kinda need some advice

So im 14, my bf is 13, we barely text, sometimes only once a day and its just good night, we'll we never talk, I dont think we've ever had a conversation thats not on text. He's nice, sweet, but very quiet, im also very quiet, so when we do see each other we just sit and dont talk at all. I feel like in a relationship i need to be with a more talkative person, because if someone is talkative then ill start to be, but he doesn't talk to all. And I've been thinking about breaking up with him, but like this is the longest relationship I've ever had, its just 4 months but still, he is the only one ive had thats got me gifts and stuff like that, but he dont really try in the relationship anymore, if i dont text him, he dont text me. My mom and bsf tell me to dump him.

Well I do like someone else, and I've never actually felt this way before, so im 14 right, well he's 17, and my bsf brother, he's talkative,but shy, he's SO SWEET, and genuinly so cute, and no not just in looks, he actually makes my heart race, and I actually like him a lot a lot, its only a 3 year age gap, but he's 17 and im 14, different age stages I think its called, but I think I might be inlove?? He actually texts me, he's funny, and just my type, and he LIKES ME TO!

But he told my bsf he won't date me till we're older of course, but he told me himself he likes me and he flirts, and held my hand before, I've liked him for years. My bsf said she dont care about us dating but it has to be when we're older, but she still find it weird, but she supports. Im not good with waiting, but I feel like if I was to date him rn, it would be fine as long as there is no intimacy and stuff, obviously hugs and holding hands and like a kiss are fine but no inappropriate touchs.

Should i break up with my boyfriend and tell him how I feel? He knows I like him already. But our mom's dont support cuz of the age thing, its only 3 years, not much, but different age groups,

I like him a lot, and it physically hurts to talk about this, but I feel like i cant talk to my mom about it because all she does is laugh and joke im not allowed to go over anymore, but he shares a room with him brother so there would be no way to be alone with him if I wanted to be