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I need an outside opinion
General Support / by selfdisciplinedChestnut9003
Last post
 April 25th
...See more So im 14, I have a bf, hes a year younger, I mean i like him and all, but we physically don't talk, at school we js sit in complete silence, sometimes holding hands, i kinda lost feelings because it feels like im dating a rock, he only really texts me if I text him first so I stopped texting first js to see how long, he doesn't text me at all except for goodnight, he used to text me every few hours and send me sweet stuff, but he dont anymore.... I started liking someone else, he's my bsfs brother, he's 17, so there is a age gap, but he's so sweet, he actually texts me, at least once every 15 or 30 minutes, he sends me sweet TikToks, I know how it sounds, uselly people think because he's 17 ,that means there is lust, but there isnt, at all, I like him because he makes me laugh, and actually has my heart racing and he likes to spend time with me, not in person but he plays Roblox with me and stuff like that, and i think im in love, obviously my mom don't support but we made it clear if there was gonna be a relationship, it would be when im older, I think to myself, your breaking up with your boyfriend and gonna wait for him, but when im with my bf i feel kinda safe, content, and everything is just the same, predictable, But he dont actually know me, and my bsf brother brings out my talkative side, and im js more compatible with him I feel like, My bsf is fine with it, but she said that she's kinda protective of her brother, and I get that, hes autistic, and much a sweetheart, and very caring and i love that, But ive been depressed asf lately so the predictability of my bf is nice, but when im with my bsfs brother I feel happy, and it feels more like im dating him then my own bf sometimes. I need an outside opinion
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I hate my mom sometimes
Family & Caregivers / by selfdisciplinedChestnut9003
Last post
 April 24th
...See more Im 14, I live with my mom and grandma, I have only one friend, she's my best friend and I love going to her house, well I kinda like her brother, he's 17 and im 14, so obviously we won't date but we liked each other for a bit now, obviously nothing has ever happened, we are still just friends because of the age gap. Like we js play Roblox and stuff. Well I told my mom that, and she said im never allowed to go over again. A year ago I was r@ped by one of my old friends brothers, I dont talk to them anymore obviously, but my bffs brother is nothing like him, he's autistic and so sweet and genuinely makes me laugh, there is no lust in it. And every time I explain that my mom just yells at me at the top of her lungs eather no or leave her alone, and it really hurts. She acts like im a whor3. And obviously I love her but it just really hurts my feelings. My grandma said she'll let me go back eventually, she always gives in, my grandma is uselly right about that kinda stuff so I have hope, but I just wish my mom was nicer and would stop yelling at me all the time, i feel so worthless because of how she talks about me sometimes.. But I've went over to my friends house every few weekends for a day within for 2 years, I love there family, I love being around them, and im genuinely happy when over and I've js been feeling depressed asf lately and uselly it felt a bit better when im over there and it just hurts a lot.
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Relationship problems, kinda need some advice
Relationship Stress / by selfdisciplinedChestnut9003
Last post
 April 14th
...See more So im 14, my bf is 13, we barely text, sometimes only once a day and its just good night, we'll we never talk, I dont think we've ever had a conversation thats not on text. He's nice, sweet, but very quiet, im also very quiet, so when we do see each other we just sit and dont talk at all. I feel like in a relationship i need to be with a more talkative person, because if someone is talkative then ill start to be, but he doesn't talk to all. And I've been thinking about breaking up with him, but like this is the longest relationship I've ever had, its just 4 months but still, he is the only one ive had thats got me gifts and stuff like that, but he dont really try in the relationship anymore, if i dont text him, he dont text me. My mom and bsf tell me to dump him. Well I do like someone else, and I've never actually felt this way before, so im 14 right, well he's 17, and my bsf brother, he's talkative,but shy, he's SO SWEET, and genuinly so cute, and no not just in looks, he actually makes my heart race, and I actually like him a lot a lot, its only a 3 year age gap, but he's 17 and im 14, different age stages I think its called, but I think I might be inlove?? He actually texts me, he's funny, and just my type, and he LIKES ME TO! But he told my bsf he won't date me till we're older of course, but he told me himself he likes me and he flirts, and held my hand before, I've liked him for years. My bsf said she dont care about us dating but it has to be when we're older, but she still find it weird, but she supports. Im not good with waiting, but I feel like if I was to date him rn, it would be fine as long as there is no intimacy and stuff, obviously hugs and holding hands and like a kiss are fine but no inappropriate touchs. Should i break up with my boyfriend and tell him how I feel? He knows I like him already. But our mom's dont support cuz of the age thing, its only 3 years, not much, but different age groups, I like him a lot, and it physically hurts to talk about this, but I feel like i cant talk to my mom about it because all she does is laugh and joke im not allowed to go over anymore, but he shares a room with him brother so there would be no way to be alone with him if I wanted to be
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Kinda need some advice, relationship problems
General Support / by selfdisciplinedChestnut9003
Last post
 April 14th
...See more So im 14, my boyfriend is 13, we barely talk, I like him, but just we aren't talkative, like we've never had a actual conversation ever, but he's really sweet and acts insecure so i feel like im *** for wanting to break up kinda, my mom and bsf tell me to break up with him, I kinda do but kinda dont. Well my bsfs brother is 17, he's only 3 years older, we both like each other, the relationship isn't freaky at all, I actually like him, I feel like I can talk to him, he has my heart racing and I always feel happy around him, my bsf said she dont care if we together BUT, she said in the future, she said she dont want us to date rn, I get the age difference, but its only 3 years, and I get that its a different age group, but it just feels different, like im generally interested about him, what he has to say, and just HIM, he texts me a lot, just like a hi or how was your day, and thats so much more then my boyfriend does. And I feel like it's wrong for me to like someone else because my bf posts about being insecure and *** so I feel *** for my feelings, My bf is my longest relationship to, its only 4 months tho, but he's the only one I've had for Hollidays and he gives me gifts and *** so i just feel so bad, I just need some advice, idk
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