Relationship stress:Attentiveness problem
My bf told me on Friday that I am not attentive enough in our relationship, I am good at being attentive with other people in my life bit not him, I have noticed it as well but my mind goes into a weird defensive state that stops remembering or in take of anything important that is said when it comes to my bf, I know this is bad but I am like the audience in a company show I only observe never really in it and I don't know how to change that that i am more present I. My relationship,
How can I start being more attentive and not shut down?
@inventiveThinker8926
Hello there. It seems as if you are going throught a lot of stuff lately with your relationship. The thing is that here on 7cups we cannot give advice. We are here though to listen, help and understand one another. We are not here to judge or give advice. Although I know you may want some advice about this issue I would recommend you to just take up on a 1-1 chat with a listener and figure it out🩵
Thanks for sharing here though.✨️
Take care and be safe🫂