Sick of it. How do i meet new people???
Im getting sick of waiting around for someone who i like appears magically in my life. Like i get it, i dont get to meet new people almost never. Im a dentist and i tend to get older patients so no one actually my age, also i do my posgraduate course but we are all women there, and then i dont do any activities where i can meet new people. Everytime i go out dancing i get sick of all the men that get close because they tend to be kind of disgusting. Everyone tells me it will come when you least expect it but COME ON im almost 27 and ive never been in a relationship. Im sick of it. Ive only been in a situationship but it quickly ended because he had to move away because of school so… im so tired of this. Im also tired of me expecting my life will change because someone starts dating me.
any and all advice is really really really appreciated💙💙
@optimisticWatermelon4320 Hi. Here is some advice. You get what you pay for, so full refund if you don’t find it credible.
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I understand how annoying it is when people say things like people come along when you least expect or are not looking etc.... i find this has been true in my case and was not looking when i met my 2 relationships. If you are looking do you know what you are looking for? both serious relationships i have had at first i did not look at either as my match but we clicked after talking and spending time, if i had decided in first day or two i might be alone.
others will plan out like a detailed plan for dating sites or other things and come away feeling disgusted and generally tired of waiting. seemingly seeing each possibility has flaws and not what you set out looking for..... there are good and bad with each approach ........
Much like clothes shopping......you will come across several "no thanks" before you find a good fit and something you are happy with ........
are their any professional organizations you could join if wanting to meet someone with similar career.... do you have any hobbies like hiking or book clubs , wine tasting you could join and if someone is not there often some people know someone etc.
@optimisticWatermelon4320 Hi. I'm sorry you are struggling with this. I just have a couple of things. First just get out and do things you enjoy doing, Either alone or find groups in your area that do things you like as well. There you will meet people with the same interests as you. Second ,I tell people if you want to catch a fish you need to go where the fish are. If you want a particular type of fish you need to go where those are. You will not catch a beautiful trophy fish in a dirty little pond. Remember the song, Lookin for love in all the wrong places. ...Seek and ye shall find. There is someone out there right now looking for YOU. Patience. You are still young.
@optimisticWatermelon4320 I have a friend he did meet his wife through a dating app they have now been married for years, with children!
Uh you have to get out into the community. Want to meet real quality men? Go volunteer. Church can be iffy. A guy spending his Saturday at a soup kitchen or hoeing a community garden is the sort you can build a future with.
@optimisticWatermelon4320 Arguably, the easiest way to meet people today is through apps and websites designed specifically for the purpose of meeting new people. Whether they're dating or friendship apps, there's so many opportunities out there! If you're open to taking an extra step and meeting people offline, then you can join a fun/interesting class at a local community college; join a club or sport at the local community center; pick up a volunteer opportunity; visit a cafe by yourself.