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Single & Dissatisfied

User Profile: AlundraSymone
AlundraSymone February 7th, 2025

I have been single as of recently. I am 24. I was with an older man who didn’t really love me. I have always tended to like older men because I can never find relationships with guys my age for the life of me. They never like me romantically.


How should I move on in life as a single young woman or handle this? I try not to worry about relationships, but all of my friends and peers are either happily in one or already or just recently married.

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 February 8th, 2025

@AlundraSymone

I would suggest that you enjoy you... 

Regardless if all your friends are in a relationship / married ect. That really has no impact on you.  I know it is hard to hang around couples but it is also uncomfortable being in a relationship or holding one together with duct tape for couples dinner parties. 

if I could go back in time i wish I had more time to explore what I really want instead of being in a relationship and molding my wants to OUR wants which in my case tended to lean towards what partner wants.   

Life is not a race.....that by certain time frames (age) we must have  partner/ maybe child /certain level of job or whatever....... too many want to compare everything.  NO ONE Should be keeping score each journey is unique not a checklist like a scavenger hunt. 

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User Profile: AlundraSymone
AlundraSymone OP February 8th, 2025

Thank you for posting this. Very insightful!

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