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I'm facing a tough time with my partner,I feel like he's emotionally unavailable for me and not taking me seriously and not giving loveee as he gave before whenever I try to talk about I feel ignored or that start a argument between us and make things worse...having told that ,were already on a fight and this time it's to serious I don't believe his love for me Unless he do some efforts and he didn't try to plead for the relationship anymore he accusing me for his acts and he's getting angry when I talk what's bothering me and tells that he needs time and on other hand he's saying like i don't know to handle the relationship so he needs a break I'm sooo emotionaly unwell why do men make so much efforts to make us fall in love ??? And then why they treat us like something after 4 complete yrs ....he only show his love through words but I don't find it conviencing I just told break up he didn't try to stop me after 1 try (man lik I'm not important for trying to Console me in different ways??).....after 3+ weeks he contacted me again and spoke like nothing happened!!! But i couldn't hold my anger I just let it out and he's like I was about to talk but you're behaving overly what do I do??gh
@brightNest9602
What do you want from relationship? Did you tell him or give him examples?
People do not always " just know" what we think they do. Example if i want a hug or hold hands or some gesture other then words and my partner is not doing that ..... I ask for what I want.
if we assume they KNOW or wait for them to do something they did before and then we become disappointed they did not do what we wanted........ we are making ourselves unhappy or mad.
Yes, we can remember times in the beginning they provided gestures or did things right when we wanted it without a word... but after you are in a relationship that sometimes slows down. it is not intentional IMO I just think we just get comfortable and forget the simple things we once did for partner.
People take a break or break up .........hoping they realize they can not do without each other and get back together.........The partners will make all the great gestures they did when first met ....rekindle the fire and passion.......that is short lived as when you get back together and time passes things will come back to not showing you love they way you want ....
Save time, Stress and arguments and just be open and honest about what you want and need from your partner. Tell them even if uncomfortable. Tell them things you would like them to do and tell them things you wish they would quit doing.