Struggling through breakup
So I dated this guy for about a year and a half. I truly thought he was the love of my life. But almost a year ago, we broke up and he stated no contact. Even though it’s been a while, I can’t seem to get over him. I’m sure he’s moved on but I’m stuck. I tried going on dates but I find that I hated it. They were probably nice guys, but they weren’t him. How do I move on?
@Booksandtea17
IMO the best way to get over anything that is OVER but we cannot let go... is to take some time to look at the end of relationship as objectively as you can. Some people romanticize how the relationship was but if it was that great for BOTH people you would still be together.
When a person asks for no contact they often have a reason.... you may not agree with his reasons or how he saw the relationship end but that does not change his view. if you compare all others to your idea of him you will never be able to move on.....
Holding on hoping all is back to what you want is only punishing yourself