Too much attachment with Mother is a 🚩

Too much attachment with Mother is a 🚩

The mother-child relationship is incomparable. 

However, I feel that the dynamics of this relationship must change in adulthood. 

Majority of us never become independent and cling onto our mothers for everything.

👉🏿 The real problem occurs when a partner enters into our lives and feels neglected or unloved because of our unhealthy attachments with our mother. 

I’ve seen many marriages falling apart where :- 

🚩 The woman was overly attached to her mother.

🚩 The man was overly attached to his mother.

They could never heal their unhealthy attachments and dependence on their mothers. 

So, they never really deeply connected with their partners leading to constant hurt & conflicts.  

In our society, too much attachment with mother, whether in childhood or adulthood is appreciated. 

This is how many never become independent.

PS : Do you agree?