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User Profile: turquoiseSail3237
turquoiseSail3237 January 11th, 2025

I overthink and it is ruining my relationship but I don't know how to handle the fact that I have never met them in person yet. It's been 8 months. I don't know what to do.

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 January 12th, 2025

@turquoiseSail3237

I am assuming you are talking of long distance relationship. 

When you say you have not met in person is it because you other factors..... then distance.  Or you are unsure they are whom they say they are?   do you doubt things in the conversation.  


 

User Profile: turquoiseSail3237
turquoiseSail3237 OP January 12th, 2025

Yes it is long distance and he's away helping build houses but he has lied about a couple of things. He promises that we will meet when he comes home but my mind keeps questioning everything.

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 January 12th, 2025

@turquoiseSail3237

I think most in your shoes have doubt ...especially if there were lies or some things that do not add up. 

if things are pushed off or excuses come then there maybe things to examine.  hard to know if information given to us is true.

I hope things work up as you want but be prepared that your doubt may be valid. 

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User Profile: turquoiseSail3237
turquoiseSail3237 OP January 12th, 2025

Thank you. I just always feel so overwhelmed and unsure of things. It's not a good place to be.

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