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User Profile: turquoiseSail3237
turquoiseSail3237 November 4th, 2023

I was dating this guy for 10 months. I stepped back from the relationship to work on me. I just wasn't in a good place. We continued to be friends but I recently told him I wanted up to try again. I know he was hurt when we broke up but he said he would consider giving us another chance. It's been about 3 weeks and it seems like he's punishing me. I just don't know what to do. He doesn't seem to want to talk about us and I'm concerned he's talking to other people. I'm wondering if I should just take that as a sign and move on.

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User Profile: KatePersephone
KatePersephone November 4th, 2023

@turquoiseSail3237 hello there. it sounds like a rather complicated situation and like it's hurting you, as well. what do you think is the best thing to do? do you think talking about it could help?

User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 November 4th, 2023

@turquoiseSail3237

If he does not want to talk about  the idea of you getting back together or as a couple, if he was really considering it he would talk.  the idea may be something he is not sure he can go through a breakup again  or your friendship is important to him and not worth risking that.

Perhaps you should move on and at least talk to others and if he wants to rekindle he will step up