What is the truth?
I was madly in love with my boyfriend. And no matter how cliched it sounds but all my understanding of love passed through him. My day started with him and ended with him calling me.
He has broken up with me. The reason: I am too demanding. Maybe I am. But what I remember is that a few nights before I wasn't feeling good and cried to which he said, I'll end the call if you won't stop crying. I was shook, anxious and bewildered. He end the call and went to sleep. The next morning he didn't talk about it. The next morning when I politely asked him to not leave a person when they are crying, he broke up with me. He said he does not have the qualities I need and he doesn't have the energy to keep up with me. I was hurt. I tried to make him understand that you can not just break up like that. But he said that I never cared for him and I was toxic. But I promise I wasn't. I have cared for him like a mother cared for her child. On some days he said thi me that he loved me a lot and Couldn't sleep without me. But now, he hasn't texted me. He hasn't checked upon me. I am scared to text him. I wish I could forget it all.
Did I ask for too much?
@khusheeyaduh
Based on this small amount of information i doubt anyone can tell you if you asked too much.... Only he knew what was too much for him...
i understand you are/ were hurt but crying is off putting for many men and so his asking you to stop or he would end the call was not unreasonable. you Correcting him and saying you cared for him like a mother does not sound like that would be helpful in a partnership/ romantic relationship.
I think you feel like he should listen to you explain how you feel but it seems like you did not take in what he is saying either..... he told you he does not think he has what you need in a relationship ....did you ask him to elaborate on that .... i think you both could grow to be better partners but he chose to break up..... so maybe you focus on moving on
