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User Profile: mullinzboyz
mullinzboyz September 22nd, 2023

My ex almost relationship unblocked me and we've resumed talking. She says doesn't know why she unblocked me as she doesn't trust me, but confessed she Unblocked me after leaving a mental institution

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User Profile: Unicorn4000
Unicorn4000 September 22nd, 2023

How do you feel about this ex?

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User Profile: mullinzboyz
mullinzboyz OP September 23rd, 2023

@Unicorn4000 I still love her, technically ending it was my call, though I thought that was what she wanted at the time.

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User Profile: emiliapspsps
emiliapspsps September 23rd, 2023

@mullinzboyz

I'm sorry to hear about the challenges you've been facing with your ex and her mental health struggles. It can be confusing when she suddenly resumes talking to you, it might take time to clear out misunderstands and both of your feelings, but it would be great to approach this by being understanding. I hope that it will go smoothly for you!

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User Profile: mullinzboyz
mullinzboyz OP September 23rd, 2023

@emiliapspsps I just wish i knew why she unblocked me, she was very aware i still loved her as i broke no contact and told her shortly before she went to the institution.

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User Profile: dukeofdearham
dukeofdearham September 23rd, 2023

@mullinzboyz,

does it matter why she unblocked you?

Just let it be. Don't go wild guessing, doesn't do you any good.

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User Profile: mullinzboyz
mullinzboyz OP September 24th, 2023

@dukeofdearham to me it does, she's a very avoidant person and extremely stubborn. I never wanted to end it either and thought this may be a second chance

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User Profile: dukeofdearham
dukeofdearham September 24th, 2023

@mullinzboyz,

you are reading something in it that you wanna belive although you simply don't know.

Let it be. If she wants to reach out she will.

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User Profile: mullinzboyz
mullinzboyz OP September 24th, 2023

@dukeofdearham as I said in the post we've already resumed talking. It's not a waiting for contact situation. It's a she says she doesn't trust me, still tells me all of her traumas, confides in me but says she doesn't know why she unblocked me

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User Profile: spongbobishappy
spongbobishappy September 23rd, 2023

@mullinzboyz

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