Wife Divorced me because she wasn't happy left me for her coworker because they where going through a divorce at the same time.
Hey guys, so me and my wife were married for 5 years together for seven and at first when we started it was Rocky. You know I wasn't the best person. But we got married and I thought she loved me. She asked me to leave my job so that way she could pursue travel nursing as she wanted me to bring the kids with us. We have two kids by the way because last time she traveled she was nervous and depressed. Now I do that. We travel from Florida to Washington and in Washington it was hard for me to get a job even though I tried. My heart is I kept trying. Then she tells me she doesn't want to be with me anymore. She doesn't love me and that she was never happy in our marriage. Because yes I was the first guy she ever met and ever did anything with but it just hurts so bad and we taught last night and she told you that her life is better off without me in it and that she regrets being married to me. Now I'm hurting. I don't anyone and I'm fighting depression. I did everything I could for her. I mean everything. I would give her the clothes off my back and she couldn't walk. I would carry her. I gave my all and she just disregardes it like it. Never mattered. Cuz yes we did argue at yes We had disagreements but who doesn't. What couple doesn't? And does she want to label us as toxic? And I just don't know what to do. I don't. We got married at the age of 26 at 25. Currently now 31 and 30.
@secretWalker4781
Hello and sorry for the belated response. Unfortunately, there was a software glitch on the forum, that might have been preventing some people from seeing and answering your message.
I know that from my experience. Being dragged to another place by someone (though in my case it was just 100 miles, not a trip from coast to coast), looking for a job there and feeling completely alone, with no familiar faces or places around.
After we separated she wrote a post on her social media, full of regret, saying that "women at her age are invisible to the world". I wrote a message to her, saying that she had always been at the centre of my attention since the day we met. But it seems you can do nothing to make people see things like you see it...
Maybe not all wounds are healed by the time passing by, but most of them finally stop bleeding at least. And you never know who is waiting for you around the corner. Sometimes you have to be somewhere else than you thought you were going to be to experience something great. Yes, it happened to me 😊
You mentioned your wife getting close with her co-worker who had divorced at the same time. That's true people sometimes feel closer to each other when they share the same experience. But later on, when the "fog of war" is no more, and everyday life begins, there is no guarantee for such a relationship to survive.
As there is no guarantee for any relationship to last forever. But I think even when something goes wrong it's important to look at the mirror months or years later and say "I did everything I could for this relationship to work fine"...
I’m sorry. I was married for 15 years and now I’m divorced. I’m the one that wanted the divorce. What did your wife say, or usually have a problem with you doing?