Wont find a girlfriend
I am a year out of college and want a girlfriend. I am on the dating apps, but they are not working. I get matches, but they dont respond to my messages. Or we have a convo for a day and it dies out. There are many girls at the gym i want to approach but dont know how or if they are into me. I feel like I will never find a girlfriend since I am out of college and its not as easy to meet girls. I see other couples and wish I had that. I know what I bring to the table. Its just people don’t respond to me on the apps, or theres no one to meet outside of the apps. Most of my friends have girlfriends, and there friends are in relationships too. I feel like im trying so hard for nothing.
@jjshap28
It honestly works that way for almost all guys on apps. Let me tell you something that might be illuminating:
My boyfriend is in his 20s. He is jacked. Amazing body. Gorgeous guy. Smart, sweet, sexy, and a lot of fun. He has a great work ethic and discipline. He never had a girlfriend before me, and he had lots of fails on the apps. Mainly he never heard back, fewer convos that go nowhere, and lots of lame hookups.
We have a great number of common interests. We have fun. We're VERY attracted to each other and very compatible in bed. But it took until the end of his 20s to find that, and we don't expect everyone to understand the kink and age difference between, well, us and the normies. Be patient. Be open-minded. So what if it took six more years?
@jjshap28 love has a funny way of showing up when you least expect it. When women see a confident man having fun, being himself, they will naturally be drawn to you. You can't exactly show those sides of you on dating apps. So my advice, is to social activities, go to social events that interest you, and go out there and enjoy your time. That's when your princess will find you ❤ good luck sweetie ❤
@jjshap28
If it was easier to meet people in college did you have a girlfriend while in school? I find people who decide ... I finished this or that and now i will find a partner. We look around our normal places and think there is nothing here ... we go online shopping ... yes that is what those apps are shopping for a person....
have you ever been looking for something shopping cannot find the right thing ... then when you are in a store for something else and see the thing you were looking for before? you may be trying too hard... and backing off a bit and doing other things you will find a person when you are NOT trying so hard.
i cannot imagine how many people i could have met by just saying something .........when i had the chance....... most women do not want to be hit on at the gym anyway.