Worried my wife will leave me
I haven't been attentive enough in our relationship or with our house/daughter. I'm really trying to improve but she doesn't know if she can trust me to keep it up. I believe she sees me as imature, irresponsible, lazy and with no prospects. I'm really trying to get better. I just don't want to lose everything.
@JakeusMaxemus
Realizing it is step one .... it is hard to develop and maintain new habits of being attentive and there for everything .... marriage is tough ........
once it goes down hill the trust is not there and i know it is frustrating to always feel as if you are watched or someone does not take your word.... it becomes a battle of wills of i will show you .... or sooner or later they won't keep it going. while someone will be RIGHT .... that does not help with feelings and they will be right but Alone.