gay help pls lol
i am gay. i am 20 years old. this past week i've been meeting with this guy who is about 35-40 years old. we have great chemistry and he shows that he cares for me. last night we tried to got into the bed and, you know, we did a few stuff. but the thing is, is that i am a top when it comes to gay sex. but i sometimes crave wanting to be a bottom and i think that i haven't found the right one to take my virginity. the guy i was with is a top too. and him like it too much to let him slip off my fingers. but i am also anxious about bottoming or being submissive to someone when it comes to sex. what do you think i should do?
@geesus111
It sounds like you’re exploring your feelings and preferences, which is okay. It’s good you’re comfortable expressing what you want and aware of your feelings about bottoming. If you feel a connection with this guy, and the chemistry is there, it’s worth talking to him about your thoughts and anxieties. Communication is key, especially when exploring new things in a relationship. You don’t have to rush into anything or feel pressured and allowed to take things at your own pace. Maybe you two can find ways to make you feel comfortable and safe if you ever decide to try bottoming. Just remember, you deserve to feel secure and happy in any situation.