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User Profile: puppylover9363
puppylover9363 August 6th, 2023

me an my bf went on a break almost a complete month ago to fix our relationship an as much as I want to fix it with him an get back together, I don’t think he wants the same, he still wants to hang out sometimes an we still talk but recently he has been very dry an I hung out with him yesterday an everything was fine we talked for a few, shared a few things with each other since we hadn’t talked about everything since it happened but today he was very dry and taking hours to respond back to me, he told me when we hung out that he wanted things to be okay eventually an we both are very busy right now, he’s getting ready to go to college and I’m getting ready to start my senior year of high school but as bad as I want this to work I feel stupid for staying an waiting on us

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User Profile: Optimisticempath
Optimisticempath August 6th, 2023

@puppylover9363 it's so difficult getting distant from people we like and is understandable to feel confused on what to do.

hope you take time to be kind to yourself also 💕

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User Profile: puppylover9363
puppylover9363 OP August 6th, 2023

I’ve been trying to focus on myself more to grow and everything as a person an to be better but it’s so difficult when all I can think about is if I should wait for him or if he’s going to fully leave.


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User Profile: Optimisticempath
Optimisticempath August 7th, 2023

@puppylover9363 makes sense to feel confused... I'm glad you're trying to focus on yourself also <3 what might help you feel comforted more?

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User Profile: peachling5689
peachling5689 August 6th, 2023

@puppylover9363

if it’s fragile, let it break. He wants to go to college and probably date other girls, so you need start dating other guys as well. I know you probably still care about him and love him, so maybe decide to be friends and check in around winter break. Don’t wait around for this relationship to work again.