how do i accoect the fact he doesn’t actually love me?
how can i let such a strong feeling go for somebody? even after he done the worst possible things to me i still love him and i still let him back in every time because i just can’t keep away from him, i always wonder how our story would’ve been if it just worked. It is always the “what ifs” that genuinely kill me to think about but how do i get him off my mind? how do i go about my everyday life having to see him every single day and try to loose feelings for him at the same time. it has been a year since everything happened and i still have the same amount of love i had for him the first time we met. i need help on how to let go
@versatileTown5455
I think many are in the same situation.
The What Ifs are what keeps people there. "What if he wakes up and see s how great we could be and that he should treat me better and we live happy ever after" We are in love with the what if or possibility of what could be ( if X, Y and z happens) not the reality of what IS happening.
The reality is the longer he has mistreated you the more it is ingrained that you are OK with it. It is only when we love ourselves more that we realize settling for that is not working.
