struggling between two!
(quick hint: Iam form an arab country)
I have been in a relationship with a perfect one( from my POV) as most of people around me don't think the same, he is a year younger thank me, still have a military service which will be end within one year, he makes everything to make me happy, he is a good listener, knows how to make me calm in my depressed moments, the issue is usually he doesn't take any initiative in our relationship, and it put me in a complicated situation with my family, for me, I want to wait for him and I truly love him and think he is worth waiting for, but the issue now is my family is forcing me to meet another guy as he is willing to marry me, they say that he is a good match for me, as he is decent has his own home and car, all of this doesn't matter to me as I don't know him and Iam already in love with another one!!
i just need a wise opinion for this situation
@luna998
I understand in some place arranged marriages are common but why is he willing to marry someone he has never met? that seems like something I would think about. Based on your looks/ family but he does not KNOW your heart.
Marriage is not about material things IMO. Regardless of car or house if you do not like or love someone it is NOT enough to get along just because you have a house. It is a miserable existence. Did your parents marry this way ? if so are they happy with each other or just accepted their fate.
Imagine you did this would you tell your daughter later in life "as long as he has things just marry him" ....
I think having love and knowing each other deeply is more important.