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trusting my partner /wlw

User Profile: aleesiak
aleesiak October 11th, 2025

weve been together for almost two years now. i want to trust her. i want to fully let my guard down. ive never been cheated on and i know shed never cheat on me. its just really hard bc we used to just be best friends and she would always point out the girls she thought were attractive. so i kinda got a sense of what her type was and thankfully i fit into the category. but now that weve been together i just cant help but worry about who she thinks is attractive now and if she wants to sleep with other girls. i know im insane and insecure but i just dont know what to do. i know shes with me and she wouldnt be if she didnt love me and find me attractive. its just hard getting over that idea of her finding somebody else hot.

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User Profile: Clio9876
Clio9876 October 12th, 2025

@aleesiak

Lacking in self belief is not insane. Sadly it is all too common. But you can work on things like self validation and digging out those negative beliefs from the past. You are worth it.