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User Profile: redCircle3878
redCircle3878 September 15th, 2022

I started talking to someone who actually seems genuine towards me, but I’m afraid to walk away from someone else who I am attached too, but they only seem want me for sex or when they need something (they sometimes act lovey dovey but I think it’s to put on a show), I know what the smart decision would be but how do I make it easier for myself to actually make that decision? I want to be happy, because expecting this person to show me love or attention is draining me. I want to be in a relationship and I want to be happy, but why is a guy not good for me getting in the way so much?


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User Profile: SunriseSunset88
SunriseSunset88 September 15th, 2022

@redCircle3878

Because change is hard. Both good change, and bad change. You say you want to be happy....what defines happiness in your life.....what makes you happy (go towards that), what makes you sad (be aware of that)....no decision is easy, life has a lot of choices for us to make...you will find the right answer within yourself...

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User Profile: redCircle3878
redCircle3878 OP September 16th, 2022

This is what I needed to hear, I appreciate your feedback more than you know. I am trying.

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User Profile: SunriseSunset88
SunriseSunset88 September 16th, 2022

@redCircle3878 Being aware of what is going on....Being aware of how it makes you feel.....And trying.....are three big steps in the right direction.

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