Discovered husband cyber-cheating
Not sure if I'm doing this correctly.
Discovered today about my husband's cyber-cheating.
Need help...
Is there anyone out there who has experienced a cheating spouse?
The heartbreak is indescribable.
@scarletCup7717
Yeah... It makes you feel ________ (so many unpleasant emotions)
Their mindless selfish act ruin other people's self-esteem. I hope you'll get thru this smoothly, unscathed and come out stronger wiser kinder than ever.
@scarletCup7717
So i am guessing as a online thing it is an emotional affair? Yes it can be devastating imo it is harder when we realize our relationship is not how as we thought or will never be the same.
how did you find out ? did you talk with him?
I am dealing with this too and it is so hard. I haven't confronted him directly because I found out by checking his phone behind his back and I don't want to get into a fight about who is more at fault or least trustworthy. I have stopped snooping and I am waiting for an opportunity to "accidentally" see an inappropriate message that I can bring up. I know that's still not totally honest but I feel like I need to protect myself. What do you plan to do?
@turquoisefox18
I can only imagine what it would be like trying to "accidentally" discovering what you already know.
I do understand not feeling great about looking through a phone ...................but in the end he is so far down the road in in overstepping.... you looked ....you saw ........and in the end if you pretend to find out another way you have to remember hiding it does not mean it did not happen.
It will drive you crazy waiting to confront ... perhaps you are telling yourself not to say anything thinking you are holding on but in the end more time in this whatever he is doing only makes that relationship stronger perhaps..... it is the secrets you know that cause more damage.
@scarletCup7717
I'm so sorry to hear that. We are here if you need to talk about it. You are not alone.