Ex girlfriend blocked me
So my ex girlfriend just blocked me out on nowhere pretty much, yesterday. Everything has been great up until this past weekend. We got into a little argument because I send her a Valentines day gift and was telling her that I didn’t feel she appreciated it as much as I was expecting. She started to be very distant with me and I have been trying to talk to her to see whats going up until yesterday. We were texting about the issues and she ended up blocking me out of nowhere on all social media and phone number. This is very unlike her..she told me she still loves more than anything and we have been talking every day for months (we are doing long distance at the moment) I was planning to go see her this weekend for my birthday and was very excited and then this happened and now i feel like i screwed everything up by getting in a little argument last weekend. I literally have no way on communicating with her and it hurts alot and dont know what to do. I want to be patient and give her space to calm down and come to a realization but of course i have my doubts.
I find it important to always give space. We care and love hard and enjoy our relationships and don't want anything to jeopardize them but problems take time. As much as we would like to instantly fix an issue it's not healthy to rush solutions. Give some space and reflect and keep your mind busy
@Akejay123
I'm sorry, but I'm a little confused. How would you describe your relationship? You say she's an ex girlfriend. Does that mean you both broke up? From what you described, you act as if you are still in a relationship. What exactly would you need?
She is technically my ex because we broke up awhile ago but have been back together for the most part prior to this happening. I just dont know how to take this whole blocking thing and absolutely no contact because im so used to talking to her everyday. She has never blocked me before even when we broke up awhile ago. I am so tempted to reach out to her another way just to talk to her but I know that might make things worse.
Let her come to you. She blocked you which is pushing you away so let her come back. She severed ties she initiated forced no contact
Can I say one more thing make sure you're not trying to fix things the way you would want them fixed because you're not her so go ahead and let her miss you she's the one who said hey I don't want you to be able to reach me goodbye
@Akejay123
OK. I think by blocking you, she made it clear that she didn't want to communicate with you at the moment. It's up to her to contact you if she wants to. The ball is on her court now. Unfortunately, you won't do much with it now. And as you write, trying to contact her in another way could make the situation worse. Who broke up with whom? Or was it mutual break up?
I agree, the ball is in her court and all I can literally do is give her the space she was seeking for. She blocked me for a reason, space is hopefully what shes looking for. And back when we broke up, she broke up with me originally. We didnt talk for like 5-6 months then she reached back out to me last June 2020. We have been talking ever since and it has been great up until this past week.
@Akejay123
yes, as you write to give her space sounds reasonable. Good luck.
i think its immature tbh. if u feel as if shes not giving enough that should not result in a full blown argument. she should turn it on u she should reassure u and helo u feel wantes. Thats ridiculoust that thats caused a fight and she blocked u. Id say she needs to be more mature and learn how to communicate. My ex freaked our and broke up w me over me saying i feel lile i put in more effort and its very manipulative
I agree, its very immature of her to do that especially when i was just trying to talk about how i felt. She didnt even block me right after the argument. It took her a few days after and her being very distant for her to block me. And even during those days of her being distant i was trying to reach out and see whats going on but she wouldnt give me the time of day to talk. Then out of nowhere she just blocked me.. so i dont know what to do this just seems very unlike her and i dont know if its just because she was upset and needs space or what. Been with with girl for pretty much 3 years and this was just a total flip out of nowhere.