Flirting

@warmheartedNorth3658

Hey there, hopefully you are doing well.

There’s always going to be doubts when another person cheats, unless they have both gone to therapy and work through it. The way you feel it’s normal, in a way it’s bringing the hurt from the past. As for your situation, it really depends on what he has said to her and if it’s something that’s making you feel uncomfortable.

I quite understand how you feel and it seems your partner is not thinking about their actions. Why on earth do they feel the need to flirt with another woman especially after cheating on you in the past and you agreeing to continuing your relationship. I think there is a level of disrespect towards you here and you really need to ask yourself if this is what you will accept in a relationship? Perhaps it's a way for your partner trying to hint to you that they are wanting to stray again.... A conversation is needed, firstly with your self about what you deserve from a him in a relationship and then a talk with him to find out what he really wants... Happiness is important so don't waste time on the wrong person.

Your beliefs become your thoughts, Your thoughts become your words, Your words become your actions, Your actions become your habits, Your habits become your values, Your values become your destiny.

—Gandhi

i love this quote because it is true and relevant to your situation. I’ve been there. If they flirt it’s only a matter of time before they act. If you’re not ok with his behavior, let him know. And if her doesn’t stop, then do what’s best for you.