How do I know what is right or wrong?
Recently I had a falling out with my parents. Before that my brother. All of these centered around issues with my husband. Without making this too long my family is pretty dysfunctional and showed my husband very little respect from the beginning. So I speak to none of my blood family, have no strong friendships and have very limited married family.
It has been very difficult to adjust. How do I know if what I feel is right or wrong with a support system to bounce ideas off of? I am lost in my thoughts constantly and not sure how to decipher if I am doing the right thing most of the time. People say listen to your gut but how do I know which is my gut, my head or my heart - or someone else's voice entirely?
@indigoOwl6391
I hear you. Sometimes it's hard to tell if our behaviour, actions and reactions are not influenced by external factors. If you want, here is 7 Cups mindfulness exercise perhaps it can help a bit.
Hope things will be clearer soon for you 🤍
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