How to get over him
Hey! I have been going through a break up for 3 months now. I keep on trying to get over him, I am better but I still love him and it is so difficult! When does this end? Is anyone going through the same? If yes let’s talk !
@azureSpring1065
I'm afraid there is no time frame for when you get over someone. 3 months... is not such a long time. Took me 3 years. Sometimes it goes faster, other times not. You need to let yourself feel what you feel and grieve. Unfortunately, there is no expiration date on grief. It just... takes however long it takes. I think generally, trying to make it go away does the exact opposite.
@azureSpring1065
Hello!
I’m glad that you are getting better.
It takes time and everyone’s journey is different.
Indulging yourself in hobbies and interest may help as a distraction<3
Sending hugs! 💛✨
Hi
I'm glad you're here with us. Sharing and being heard can be helpful in this situation. Try to spend time with your friends and family members that are supportive. It's going to take time, especially when you still have feelings for him, so it's better not to rush or obsess over how long it's going to take. Don't be hard on yourself my friend and remember to use positive self talk 🌸
I guess you already know that the first most important step of moving on is to discard everything you have kept from this relationship. Get rid of every single thing that reminds you of him.
In my experience, trying a new hobby was very helpful. New experiences often help us remember how many interesting and surprising things are out there to be discovered. You can also discover new talents and interests of yourself that you never knew they existed. Occupy yourself, It will probably happen gradually and one day you'll just realize you have simply moved on.
