Husband doesnt unsure of his preference
3 days ago while my husband was asleep, his phone lit up. I looked at it and i saw a message from grinder saying " i still wanna suck ur cock" i was shooked!
My cry woke him up from his sleep. I wanted to run away from the moment i saw that message, but i calm myself and ask him why?? When? Where did it happened? I tried to understand him coz i want him to tell me everything. He said hes still not sure if hes bi sexual or pansexual. I want to get divorced Asap! But we have a 3 yr old kid. So we considered just to co exist until we figure out what to do next. For him he still wanna stay on this marriage coz he thinks he said he still love me, but sometimes he wants do it with a guy.
Anyone had this experience??? 😭😭😭😭 howd u live with a bi/pansexual husband? Help
Hello, I dont have the experience but I wanted to ask. Are their any signs prior to marriage that indicated that he was into other men?
I am sorry that you had to find out like that, I am in no way defending being unfaithful please don’t interpret this that way. I have had thoughts about being with another man sexually but never acted upon it to this point. I have a wife and two kids and when I got married I had casual thoughts about it before and always suppressed them chalked it up to just being curious. I know that I don’t want to date a guy but wish I would’ve tried it before marriage to get it out of my system and know what I wanted and felt the experience. He may like the sexual feeling of *** stimulation but he needs to be honest with himself and you. I know being the father of your child how devastating you are feeling by this I want you to know from a male perspective you did nothing wrong nor did you cause it. He probably is like me and suppressed feelings and/or wanted to be normal and hid it all his life and gave in to the urge of it. I know my wife would be devastated if I had gone ahead with finding a guy and having sex with him and being unfaithful my love for her keeps me from acting I just keep trying to introduce new sexual ideas with her to find a happy medium and you may consider the same things like pegging or watching different porn together. I know that you didn’t sign up for that but if you could ever find a place inside yourself out of love you could be part of his sexual desires and be involved what happens in your bedroom is no one’s business so you could take a leap and include yourself by watching it’s just sex not a relationship. If you’re involved you can at least understand what is appealing about it and know who or what is in him. I hope you get peace with everything and I’m sorry this happened to you like that you’re a good person and I’m here if you need to talk