I don't know anymore
So....me and my boyfriend have been together over a year and a few months....everything was fine we were happy together....and after a few months...he says that he cheated on me....he kissed his cousin....she liked him too so she kissed him back as he went and gave the initiative....he was very guilty of doing it he was sorry abt it....I gave him a second chance....and then I would eventually get over it with time....months passed....and few days ago he says that it was more than a kiss hid the fact abt what actually happened....while he went and gave the initiative she thought he wants to hook up so she took his hand which was on her neck and placed it on her breasts....he didn't tell me this.....cuz he thought it'd hurt me even more and he hid this from me....and now he's guilty of hiding it....and says he's really sorry that it happened and wouldn't do anything intentionally to hurt me....idk what to do...I really love him and I wanna go back...but I'm too scared for the thought that once I go back with him...at some point when we we are together....I'm just too scared that the thing would pop out in my head....when we are together....I just don't know anymore...I just don't know what to do....would be really glad if u suggest me some advice🥺❤
If it were me I would leave him on the spot. Like how there you cheat on the person you say you love? Hurt them that way, what the hell do you even gain from that? And hiding what really happened? Can you really trust him after that? Can you really feel secure around him, feel good? You have all the right to leave that relationship, he may be sorry and it is completely up to you if you’re going to forgive him or not. You don’t deserve someone who will backstab you like that. You are entitled to move forward even if it’s means to be without him.
Tysmmm!! Means alot🥺❤
So you're saying your boyfriend cheated, you gave him another chance and then he revealed more details about how he cheated which he initially didn't reveal because he was afraid he'd hurt you. He also said he would never intentionally hurt you. You love him but you're scared of giving him another chance because of what may happen. No matter your choice, remember your worth. You don't have to live in fear of his secrets or dishonesty—you can let him go if that'd hurt you less than holding on in the long run but in the end it's your choice whether you stay or go. Choose what would make you happy in the long run and wouldn't compromise your worth and love.
I really don't know who u are exactly but ilyyy😭😭🥺💕
You deserve better. You deserve someone who will choose to be with you no matter what temptation they can encounter. Remember, cheating is a choice and once he did it, it might happen again. Things will never go back to the way you were before if ever you decide to be with him again. Trust is ruined and there will be full of doubts
thank youuuu for making me feel better😭🥺💕
@xdihturs
Cousin? Oh my. &If he was going to come clean, he should've done it the first time. Not tell you a bit, you take him back for a while and tell you the rest. That's unfair for you and you shouldn't be with him. I feel like he's testing the waters with you. Like how much he can mess up and you'd still take him back.
leave him! you are worth so much more than this and don’t deserve to feel like less. you shouldn’t have to constantly worry in a relationship bc trust is so important. cheating is a major red flag as is but he cheated on you WITH HIS COUSIN! you can find someone who loves and appreciates you much more. it’s going to hurt when you leave him at first but when you find that someone new, this pain will be worth it :)