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I don’t know how to move forward

User Profile: deepdown447
deepdown447 August 9th, 2021

So last week I look through my husbands phone just being nosey and I find a video of him on face time with a female while she is naked. He whips it out for her and everything. He’s taking screenshots the whole time and is encouraging her to show him her body parts. And at the end of the four minute video he kisses her through the phone goodbye. I have no idea how to move forward from this. I love him and I want to move forward but sometimes I remember that and I just want to cry.

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User Profile: Limepeach90
Limepeach90 August 9th, 2021

Leave him your better off without him. That is considered cheating. If he's doing it over video he'll do it in real life.

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User Profile: deepdown447
deepdown447 OP August 9th, 2021

It really doesn’t feel that easy. I wouldn’t be able to he’s the loml and we have a beautiful baby boy.

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User Profile: soulful557
soulful557 August 10th, 2021

This is cheating and you need to seriously consider what you want to do next


The first step is to take time to think and then confront him about it.


Think about what you want the rest of your life to look like and if you can trust this person


He needs to realise this really is cheating

User Profile: barrowAK
barrowAK August 11th, 2021

Maam doesn't take that personal maam men think about women no stop. And usual it is young good looking girl depending on the man. Women also does bad. Thehave porn to it is prove it is vampire zombie billionaire werewolf and surgeon. And girls gossip and judge man on mony. I has zero dollar and never get any girl so it sucks. Any way I is just saying we all make moral moral mistakes so plese forgive maam

User Profile: ShySugar789
ShySugar789 August 15th, 2021

I believe it would benefit you guys, if you opened up to him, if you feel that he would listen and at least try to understand..? I think letting him know how much it hurts you and what you think about it when you saw it would help him.

I can't imagine finding that while living with someone you love. I am going through trust issues now and I can't do things like (being intimate like kiss or sex, or submissive and let him lead us as a team) while I know he has done something similar to that. Even though I want those things and for us to be normal it complicates everything I feel inside.