I don’t like my husbands friend that is a woman
Long story short, I just found out recently that this woman who is friends with my husband, slept with my brother in law and he is married. My husband confronted him about it through text and he confirmed it. I feel as though I cannot trust this woman around my husband because of this plus prior to my husband and I being together, this woman was interested in my husband. I’ve told my husband that I don’t trust her but he wants to get her side of the story on this. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to tell him that I don’t want him around her but at the same time, this woman is a tramp and she makes me physically ill. Any advice?
@plumGrapefruit7117 maybe try to talk to him
@plumGrapefruit7117
Sit down and tell him how you feel because if shes "interested in him'' she's planning something and it could possibly hurt your guys relationship. If that doesn't work and he's still hanging out with her try being friends with her so you know if it's okay for them hanging out.
I have been working on this. The problem is that she is usually pretty busy so we only hear from her once every few months or so. But I have a feeling that if I hang out with her I’m going to ask her why she thought it was okay to get in the middle of someone else’s marriage. Plus she’s also married and basically cheated on her husband with my brother in law so I have a very hard time being nice to her.
Also, I should mention that she was friends with my sister in law and did this so becoming her friend will not be easy for me because I’ll be damned if she does the same thing to me behind my back.
@plumGrapefruit7117
Time to introduce your husband to your new friend, Mrs. Ultimatum.
I have a feeling that I won’t have to do that. I think he’s going to confront her and figure out that she’s definitely not worth his time because she’s a lying homewrecker
Bump
If it were me, I’d confront her myself. Or at least confront her with your husband like all three of you together. Just ask her questions and hear what she has to say. Listen to your gut feeling. And if your gut is telling you that she’s trying to get between you and your husband, tell her nicely not to contact you or him again. I’d she doesn’t comply, you can threaten her with a restraining order. That’s what I’d do but I don’t mind confrontation one bit.
