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I feel alone... Is something wrong with me?

User Profile: kookieluv5
kookieluv5 March 11th, 2021

I’m 19 years old and I live in a very small town and I’m currently in college. I haven’t had a boyfriend yet. I’ve had some guys interested in me but nothing more than a hookup or make out and that makes me feel like maybe there is something wrong with me. Most of my friends had boyfriends back when we were 15 and I just wasn’t ready for something like that. But it’s just a feeling I have for a while now... What do you think ?

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User Profile: Seryien
Seryien March 11th, 2021

Not at all... I'm 19 yo too and I've never been in a relationship cuz I'm waiting for true love but to be honest there's no true love ..🌼

User Profile: sally2345986
sally2345986 March 11th, 2021

@kookieluv5 I would try a dating site of some sort maybe bumble or tinder or ok cupid My college was small and didn't have many choices dating wise.

User Profile: fearlessNickel4472
fearlessNickel4472 March 14th, 2021

You're in a good place here and you're not alone.

User Profile: tellaph0ness
tellaph0ness March 15th, 2021

Hey. Question, do you not have a boyfriend yet because you don’t find yourself attracted to anyone? Or is it another reason? If it’s the first one, I think you might be aromantic or gray romantic! Aromantic is where you feel little to no romantic attraction towards anyone. Grayromantic (Which I am btw!) is when you feel some romantic attraction or feel it differently from others (Keep in mind those are both umbrella terms and is a spectrum so has different definitions depending on the person. I suggest looking into each to see which one suits you best. Google is great.) If you think you’re aromantic or grayromantic, don’t worry, you’re totally valid! There’s nothing wrong with you! It’s a normal thing.