I messed up
So me and my girlfriend have been together about 5 months. We’ve had a great time and I moved In with her. Now I’ve been working on my mental health and trying not to be as insecure. But lately it’s been rough for me I really love her a lot. We talked last week about all our issues and decided we would work on them and we wouldn’t break up. But I found messages on her phone about me and I took pictures of them and she saw that. She’s kicked me out of the house for a week and now I’m essentially homeless till then. But I can’t stop shaking and crying because I regret it and I just want her back because I know I made a mistake. I dunno what to do with myself
Hey, I don't think you made a mistake. I am not sure why you think that, but going through a significant others phone for security reasons is not a mistake and should not turn into an argument. Unless, you found something.
It sounds as if she is upset that you found her writing something about you and more so is mad about that. If you felt that her talking about you in the messages was wrong then that's the way you feel and she should try to understand that.
