I’m worried

@AmbrosiaIsANiceName

Hi--that's understandable that given all of the really terrible relationship you've had in the past, you'd expect the worst from your current boyfriend. 💜 You don't know for sure whether he is cheating or not, but it feels like the fact that he's ignoring you a lot is suspicious or problematic in some way and you're scared. You'd rather not assume the worst though and end things prematurely if he isn't actually cheating, because you love him a lot and he's a kind person.

I wonder if this might be something that could be resolved by talking with him and sharing how you're feeling, what you're worried about, and what you'd like from him. And asking how he's feeling, whether there is anything wrong, and just trying to work through this situation together.

Right now the only thing you know for sure is that his behavior toward you has changed, and there could be a lot of different explanations for that ranging from cheating (worst-case scenario), to him maybe having some minor conflict with you that can be resolved through communication, to maybe him being preoccupied or busy with something personal that isn't related to relationships at all.

Watch out for him being nice I didn’t know that my fiancé of five years was cheating on me because I couldn’t tell a difference until I got on her phone and found her talking to men through every social media app just saying he could be hiding something