I need help
Why do you to stay if it's making you feel you are falling apart? 🤔🤗
@maeflower21 I am sorry to hear you are not well or falling apart. I am single, and have been for quite some time, I recently tried to start seeing someone, as they desired something with me, and so I allowed it. There are some things that are bothering me about this relationship; I am fearing that as in your case there is either lying or cheating of some kind or betrayal; for someone who can accept an open type of relationship, for me what really matters is yes the cheating but also the lying. I don't see a need to lie about things like this, and use betrayal. I can't prove it, but he had promised me or has been talking about how he has been faithful. Something doesn't feel right. A few days ago, I simply couldn't handle it, and told him that it's not to work out. Currently we are not talking. I cannot advise you on here on what to do, but I can't worry about it. I have other things to do. Also, how can I trust someone with my feelings and also my body after they promised they wouldn't; and I am not the one who asked or started the relationship; I never asked him for a commitment.
So, maybe you can take some time to think for yourself, what it is that will benefit you in the long run, and how will you be able to sustain this and be healthy enough to function on a daily basis. Just this past week I have been exchausted from all the turmoil...
I wish you good luck, I hope you can make the right decision for yourself, I know it's hard, and of course, you have not provided any other information.
Thanks for letting me write about this... it is helpful to me also. Hope you enjoy your weekend...